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My New One Word For the Year: “SPACE" (Column Related)

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If you've been reading Family Matters for a while, you're probably aware that I no longer make New Year Resolutions. I used to, I still could...but I don't, and I won't.

I'm tired of them. 

Instead, I like to do the My One Word thing. It's the same idea, same principle but using a very different approach.

If you know me, you know I love getting better at stuff, self-help books and setting goals…so don't for a second think that this 'cutting-down-our-resolution's-list-to-one-word' is a piece of cake. It's not.

It's intense, but simpler to keep track of and to apply.
Where I used to be overwhelmed every year and easily discouraged; sometimes not even knowing where or how to start.

Now, I'm ahhhhh…… breathing. And still making changes.

My One Word, in my opinion, is just a better way to achieve my goals throughout the year.

Hey, I'm a mom. So if there's a better, and more efficient way to get things done, I'm IN!
And if it works, I'm sticking with it!

So far so good. 4 years and counting. 

This Year's Word?

S  P  A  C  E 
Stay tuned and learn why…

Not sure which word to pick?

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